1. Set a Time That Works for Both of You

Finding time to study the Bible as a couple can be challenging, especially with different work schedules, church commitments, and family responsibilities. Jason and I initially struggled with consistency, but we found that Sunday evenings work best for us. It’s our time to slow down, reflect, and reset for the upcoming week.

Some great times to study together include:

• Morning Devotions – Start the day with God’s Word over breakfast or coffee.
• Evening Reflection – Wind down before bed with Scripture and prayer.
• Weekly Study Night – Pick a night to dive deeper into God’s Word together.

The key is consistency, even if it’s just 10–15 minutes at first. Set a realistic goal and commit to it.

2. Choose a Study Method That Works for You

There are many ways to study the Bible as a couple. Here are a few approaches that have worked for Jason and me:

a. Devotional Studies

We started with a couples’ devotional that provides daily readings, reflection questions, and prayers. This is a great way to ease into Bible study as a couple.

Recommendation: The Love Dare Day by Day: A Year of Devotions for Couples (Amazon Affiliate Link)

b. Chapter-by-Chapter Study

We’re currently reading through Ephesians, a book filled with wisdom about love, unity, and God’s purpose for marriage. Reading one chapter at a time and discussing key takeaways helps us apply Scripture to our relationship.

c. Topical Bible Study

Some weeks, we focus on topics like forgiveness, communication, or faith in difficult times. We use a concordance or a Bible app to find relevant Scriptures and discuss how they apply to our relationship.

d. Inductive Bible Study

For a deeper dive, we use the Observation, Interpretation, and Application method:

• Observation: What does this passage say?
• Interpretation: What does it mean in context?
• Application: How can we apply it to our marriage?

Bible Study Tools We Use:

• ESV Study Bible (Amazon Affiliate Link)
• Mr. Pen Bible Highlighters (No Bleed) (Amazon Affiliate Link)
• Bible Tabs for Easy Navigation (Amazon Affiliate Link)

3. Pray Before and After Your Study

Jason and I always start and end our Bible study with prayer. It helps us center our hearts and invite God into our discussions.

Example Prayer Before Study:
“Lord, thank You for bringing us together to study Your Word. Open our hearts and minds to understand Your truth. Help us apply what we learn to our relationship and glorify You in our marriage. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

After our study, we take turns praying for each other, thanking God for His Word and asking for wisdom in applying it to our relationship.

4. Discuss and Apply What You Learn

We don’t just read Scripture—we talk about it and apply it to our relationship. Here are some of the questions we ask each other after studying a passage:

• What did you learn about God in this passage?
• How does this apply to our marriage?
• Is there something we need to work on as a couple?

For example, while studying 1 Corinthians 13, we reflected on patience and kindness in our communication, realizing we could be more intentional about how we respond to each other in stressful moments.

5. Memorize Scripture Together

One fun way Jason and I stay spiritually connected is by memorizing Bible verses together. We write verses on sticky notes and put them around the house, recite them during car rides, and use a Bible memory app.

A great verse to start with:
Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NIV)
“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

This verse reminds us that our marriage should be centered on God, making us stronger together.

6. Encourage Each Other Spiritually

Spiritual growth isn’t always at the same pace, and that’s okay! Jason and I support each other’s faith journeys by:

• Giving grace when one of us is struggling spiritually.
• Holding each other accountable in prayer and Bible study.
• Encouraging personal time with God (because individual growth strengthens the marriage).

If one of us misses a study day or struggles with consistency, we don’t criticize—we encourage.

7. Make It a Joyful Experience

Bible study with your spouse doesn’t have to feel like a task—it should be a joyful, meaningful experience. Here are some ways we keep it fun:

• Create a cozy space with candles and coffee.
• Play worship music before starting.
• Journal together and share reflections.
• Celebrate milestones, like finishing a book of the Bible together.

Your Bible study time should be something you look forward to, not just another item on the to-do list.

Final Thoughts: A Christ-Centered Marriage Starts with His Word

Studying the Bible as a couple has been one of the most rewarding parts of our engagement, and we know it will continue to bless our marriage. It helps us stay grounded in faith, communicate better, and align our relationship with God’s purpose.

If you and your spouse haven’t started a Bible study routine, don’t stress—just take the first step. Start small, be consistent, and invite God into your relationship.

Do you and your spouse study the Bible together? What methods work best for you? Share your thoughts in the comments below!